I GOT IT

' Always be a first-rate version of yourself,
instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.'

It's a common thing to spend a lot of time on wat others think of you. Everyone does it. But i hav understanded something tat we dun need to care tis matter so much. Here are somethings to keep in mind:

1) It is impossible to noe wat another person thinks of u. So we no need to think about wat others think of u. Although u noe it, but u cant do anything with it.

2) What other people think of you changes from moment to moment. For instance, a friend tells you that someone said something bad about u. Of course, u feel hurt and u begin wondering all kinda of reasons. But it's important to remember tat this person could have been in a bad mood when he or she said wat he/she did. Moreover, we never really noe wat another person thinks simply by being told smthing he or she said.

3) You cant control wat another person thinks about you. Even u wan to get a highly think frm a particular person and try extra hard to get him/her to like u, but they're still going to think wat they think in the end. It's usually somthing u cant control.

4)When u're truly feeling good about yourself, you will worry much less about wat others think of u. This is the most important thing to remember.

Thus, it's much better to spend time on wat are u thinking of u rather than trying to shape some else's impression of u. This is only thing tat really matter tat wat are u thinking of u. Hope everyone get it and always happy =D

* After understanding tis, i become joy and feel free when getting around wif friends. And confident is wif me now. Juz truly be myself. What others think of me??? It's the point tat i really dont care!